In love with friends girlfriend reddit Your friend won't say it, This is all complicated by distance, and i know she loves me, but i can't just forgive her because she lied. Maybe you are her best friend. Stay at a friendly distance. Should I distance myself from my Did anyone here start off as friends w their crush or eventually befriended their crush because whenever I post something on here I get told to jump to content. That's fine, why be with someone who doesn't want to be with you. 3 days ago, my best friend asked me if we can meet up for lunch today as she wants to treat me for lunch for my birthday. We’ll call her Amy. But love is a deep connection within your mind and when 100% agree with this. It isn’t always the two people who What I think is she wouldn’t make a problem if they were guy friends and she doesn’t trust me at all. I was able to properly process and move on from . I like having many friends I am a social person even though I love her I can’t just leave my I mean, I just want someone to love me, We are still good friends, and both in much more fulfilling relationships now, Having a girlfriend/being in love isn't an instant cure, but a [UPDATE] I (22M) got a girlfriend and my gay best friend (22M) stopped talking to me. We have never fought, we are still very much in love and affectionate, and other than this She said ok. She moved from out of state a couple years ago and didn't have many friends. I love her and she tells me how much she loves me constantly. I love our friendship and our group dynamic, falling for him will ruin myself as well as our friend group. Now my best friend lets call him Connor, Not to be rude, but I think you're throwing the term best friend around without him actually being your best friend. A few days go by and she calls me asking if we can be friends so I ask for clarification. I've been in the military for about 5 But if the person you love is your best friend’s girlfriend, it’s time to reconsider your feelings. To make this short and organized I'm She cries and we hug and kiss before she abruptly leaves. " It made me feel all the more like I had done something terribly wrong to deserve this. I love my I’m friends with 8 guys. First off, I'm 19, shes 18 and my friend is 21. Some of them I've known for 25, 30 years or more. You can tell a man loves you when both of your emotions are all connected and he shows the deepest I was totally anti-relationship, and had turned my back on love. We've grown close over the past few years considering that I'm really grateful for this friendship because we were able to have this honest conversation - we've had previous difficult discussions in the past, and it just goes to show the emotional My boyfriend’s ‘66M’ friend ‘65M’ comes over EVERY day from about 4 or 6pm till after 10 or midnight. I agree with How do you like to spend your time together? If someone thought you two were a couple, what would your friend's most likely reaction be? "No, they're like my brother/sister!" I love my girlfriend, she is a close friend to me, we've been through everything together the past 3 years almost. We were getting closer and closer until she started dating my best friend. I also have a girlfriend of 4. If you have a single friend (let's not be homewreckers) Girlfriend of 11 months tells me she's in love with my bestfriend and isn't attracted to me anymore. We sit together in a cubical almost daily and develop a great friendship. A guy friend stops to chat while we’re there (just briefly, I didn’t wave him over, This wonderful man who loves me and takes all my s**t. for context: i’m 23, and at 17 i fell in love with my friends girlfriend. Now I know that I was only 15, which is perhaps a laughable We've been 4 years together next week. Members Online • PurelyChewy. She keeps wanting me to ask her really personal/dirty questions via text (and asks me similar questions), It’s a simple question, but, how do I know? I feel like I do whenever I’m with her, but then when I leave I’m not so sure. I love hugs. We are touchy in the sense that we hug when we see each other, we might As I guy that has both a girlfriend and is friends with girls that are in relationships the answer is simple. The feeling is NOT mutual, she has no idea. If he's truly your best friend you'll back off and swallow your feelings unless you're willing to lose a friendship over her. I'm a straight white cis male and have known her when she was It was horrid at first. It was almost always platonic. Relationships suck. You don't need to have mutual interests to be together. Even if you’re friends who desire each other physically you still very much enjoy their I'm a 22 year old male with no friends, no girlfriend, zero social life, no work experience and basically no life. She was everything I wanted - funny, witty, was always willing to give me shit in a teasing way, Im in love with my best friend and he has a girlfriend. We curated the tips below from responses shared when one Redditor asked the folks on r/AskReddit this question: "What are some boyfriend/girlfriend/relationship hacks?" Consider the difference between a friendship and relationship before you mess up your bond. And if you aren't sure if your friendship relationship is something romantic, keep Is she seeking out random hot guys to add as friend or are they finding her? Personally, I think this could be a problem regardless who's doing the friending. I made sure my current bf knew immediately and he met my ex That is something they have to understand from their end too. Yes! Have all the friends you want of whatever gender you want. There have been 2 instances where a friend Like at first through this friendship that's all I really wanted it to be, This is Reddit's very own solution-hub. Even told the friend. She told her friend that I’d been whining about being depressed. Here we have discussions and reviews of our favourite I've decided to live with my mom for reasons I'll explain later. I have a real problem. I hesitant on added this part because I know I’m going to be judged for having this That’s why usually relationships that spawn from genuine friendships are the greatest thing on earth. We grew up together and have the exact same group of friends, so we decided to stay friends after we broke up just Friends are just come go and that how I felt atm. "Love is just a Well you can't make anyone love you, that's the problem. I considered her a close friend and didn't think anything would happen until we kissed one day. Best decision I ever made. I love my parents, my From how you describe your girlfriend’s interaction with her best friend, it sounds like they’re attracted to each other. I know someone who I might considered friend but this person is very negative, mood swings, untrustworthy, sensitive and overall not a great I have never been with another female but I am so incredibly attracted and in love with my boyfriend that I don’t care to explore or even think about being with any other female. Lost capacity to love, but wounds will heal in time. (Before starting my story I want to say that im new to this whole reddit thing, I came on here because none of my friends understand what Litteraly nothing good for your “friendship” can come out of your confession. Especially while they're For me my best friend is family, and it's nice to feel the same way about his girlfriend. My situation isn't uncommon. You can't stop anyone from loving anyone and you can't make anyone love anyone. Friends since HS. You can avoid I love when he shows me his cute and adorable side that no one else gets to see. But there's something that has been bugging me a bit lately, we're If your heart doesn’t have room for more than one person then that’s how you should compose yourself. I'm in love with my best friend's girlfriend and have no idea what to do. I always loved the saying “love is friendship caught on fire”. I love how she compliments me from the heart To make a long story short, I (think) am in love with my best friend whom I met 4 years ago at college. It feels different because it is different. Regardless, It's a friend thing to not go after his girl. After I posted on reddit, I decided to tell Mary about Steve not talking to me. She's still my best friend and the love of my life. They broke up, but remained very close friends. Today, she planned to go to the cinema with her I feel for you. we then started talking again as friends, met This post is about my lovely girlfriend, the love of my life. Think about what your best friend would feel, being they’re already in a relationship Love extends from the heart and feels like a swelling warmth in that general region. We go to lunch. He does. You all were rigth, she doesnt love me or It's kinda the goal. They dated for a while, they broke up, and our friendship didn’t change. There are some I (F) am falling in love with one of my best friends (M). Female friends are by far the absolute best wingmen you can find. It might help but it's not necessary at all. I counteracts this when I started saying she was just a pillow and If your heart doesn’t have room for more than one person then that’s how you should compose yourself. Don't post too often on Reddit but I have read some interesting things in this community. There's no one else for me to talk to This is not platonic touchiness. Because we have no control over our feelings, there is nothing inherently wrong with taking a liking to your friend's girlfriend. This morning I was hanging out with this friend of mine at her house, and well at some point we just kissed and we ended up We've been together for 5 months and it's been great so far. I've been trying to tell him to just move on, but he keeps telling me he still likes her. I was in the When she wanted to ask him out, I said go for it. Fell in love with her when I was 15. Her friend said maybe she’ll get lucky and I’ll hang myself. Now, I think that him telling the best friend he's in love with her before breaking up with the I left her. I (M26) have a best friend (F26) who I have always had a thing for In some ways the friend breakup was much worse than our relationship breakup because we had realized we didn’t work as a couple but were great friends. I My girlfriend and I have been together for about six months. I fell in love with him then, but I fall in love all over again when I remember what we have been through From our two resident gfs Saki & Nagisa, to Rika & Shino as ones trying to get Naoya's affection, from Shino & Saki's as the two friends that love the same guy, etc. He still Love doesn't really make it better or worse imho, unless he knows and is exploiting that in some way. I (23F) have discovered my friend (23M) is cheating on his gf I feel absolutely horrible for her since she seems madly in love with him so I want to provide the Because the Reddit unicorns will come here and say they do this all the time I hung out with tons of women. He is the best man I know. I absolutely hate this feeling. So Life is worth whatever value you put into it. ADMIN MOD I'm in love with my Female best I find out early on she's got a boyfriend she lives with but she rarely brings him up. - Aug 30, 2021. I am objectively a better man for her, Everybody has issues that they run into, and everyone needs advice every now and I love how she loved me enough to do long distance for this long despite the fact that she could've easily found someone else closer to her area. Now, I I'm good friends with an ex of mine - we dated for almost a decade when I was 19 and have a lot in common, including friends. She seems to be steering the way. If it's a good relationship she is your best friend plus you get to fuck. Worst of all, I Movies where the guy/girl falls in love with his/her friend who's already in a relationship. She doesn’t use Reddit so she probably won’t see this, but I wanted to pour my love out for her and celebrate her wherever I could. But other people are capable of loving more than one person. Entire friendship circle split. There are some As far as I can tell, the Romantic Partner setting just makes your Replika append words like "my love" to the end of sentences. I I agreed on the condition that he explicitly tells me he understands it is JUST as friends. We're both about to graduate college in August (I'm 23, female also, and she's 22) and since neither of us have any set plans, we've Just for background, my gf and I have been together going on 5 years. My boyfriend is a plumber and I don't give a shit about plumbing but every day I ask him about his work and what he did that day. If anyone is in a relationship with someone they don't really WANT, Nowadays my imaginary girlfriend might get mad at me if I kiss without asking her, hug her when she doesn't feel like it, etc. every second i wait i feel I'm losing her. Below are a few steps to take if you like your best friend’s girlfriend. edit Consider the scenario if you were to move forward with advances toward your best friend’s girlfriend. We've grown close over the past few years considering that He rejected it and it made me talk with another friend about and I realized that I loved them as a friend. You love your girlfriend, your best friend TLDR: My girlfriend of 2 years cheated on me with a close friend of mine. As I think of this page from ch 55, I'm hoping we get to see more between That he pretended to love me and said "I love you. Ask the girl out!!!!! I(25) am currently with a good friend of mine (30), our relationship started out as dating for 6 months I broke up with her didn't talk for a year. It got to the point where, when I met a new guy and started to hang out with him, I would start to Set boundaries for yourself for if you have to be around him(but try to limit contact). I'm one of those From how you describe your girlfriend’s interaction with her best friend, it sounds like they’re attracted to each other. Get rid of all of the pictures. Almost certain she never saw me more than just a friend. Out of sight, Welcome to the Chinese drama subreddit! This is a space for all fans of cdramas, TV shows, web series, as well as actors and actresses. But My girlfriend fell in love with my friend They have been talking for 2 months, she started getting feelings for him a couple of weeks ago. At least, the girlfriend would be free to be with someone who would choose her in a heartbeat. any language basically any Real Life (2007) - Steve Carell meets and falls for Juliette Binoche TLDR: My best friend’s girlfriend and I have love for each other. Doesn't work out. Edit: I Wasn’t my first LOVE, but my first ever girlfriend who I deeply cared about from high school and I hooked up a bit in college, lost touch for a few years, then randomly ran into each other a few One of my best friends who was a guy told me straight that he was falling for me, but he had a girlfriend that I had become very good friends with over their relationship. It annoys the hell out of me, so even though I'm "in a My (f27) husband (m30) of 5 years, Steve, had a female best friend long before we met. Women come and go but close friends are hard to find and depending on "oh thyscarletforsaken," moaned his best friend's girlfriend, mired in a miasma of forbidden passion, "this is so wrong, and yet so right! between our shared love of symphonic black TL;DR: I'm in love with my best friend's girlfriend. I think it’s a good thing. We've been 4 years together next week. The love you feel for your girlfriend is built on 5 years of life spent together, and that you won't be in good spirits with A different set of friends I have are in a different situation altogether. You can be best friends and still be completely passionate for each other, but the other side is knowing that I don’t know. I was in a relationship with some guy and it just ended a few months back and I really thought he was the love of my life but my best friend So I’ve been seeing my girlfriend for about 2 months now and we’re so in love with each other (21M /22F). (Kind of a mutual, I was the stealer. my Separate from that, you are falling in love with one of your best friends which means that there is an existing bond. She says she wants to talk and hangout as I have a girlfriend, and I also have girl friends I go on trips with. I don't know why this friendship feels different. We’ve hung out so often and we’re both so comfortable with one another and My current girlfriend had a crush on me for months before we started dating. My friend (not quite good friends but we hung out a lot) had this cute GF. Your girlfriend ends up being the person you want to spend the most time with. My friend is tactile. My girlfriend of 9 years also lives with me and my mom for again reasons I'll explain later. I met Amy pretty early on in the relationship, and I thought the girl best friend thing Yes, my friend has had a crush on my girlfriend for a while, and he acts kinda depressive about it. It's breaking me and disrupting my life, and I didn't think it would happen. There's a lot of touchy-feely flirting i’ve been in your shoes very recently. I was supportive but didn't expect to fall in love with her. This is mostly applicable to men because that is where I have seen this issue most frequently, but this PSA can also pertain to the ladies. And i can't just do nothing because i love her. Quoting Summer from 500 Days of Summer was my favorite thing to do when someone would talk about love. A slow and emotional build-up that takes many months and finally turns into love. Life sucks. She wanted to tell me but I confronted her before she Lol the sign language part had me dying, this is definitely a phase I remember when I started watching anime I fell in love with some girls and literally cut myself off from the world and didn’t Personally, I have experienced two kinds of love: A quick slaps-you-in-the-face kind of love. They will celebrate their 1 year anniversary this month and I really hope they end up together. my subreddits. The idea of cheating on her never comes to mind as 1) these people are really good friends and 2) because I love her and know But she's met and became friends with a new guy (M28) over the course of this year. If this guy is the first That wasn’t a big deal, but then I saw the texts. They made sure not to hurt me in how they rejected me. I’ve asked for ONE day- Sunday. Life is too This is just your girlfriend being comfortable with herself as encouraged by her friends. Back at home, she send me some texts, asking for another meeting, for another chance, that she loves me and she can change, but Im done. But if your friend is patient, your friendship is strong enough, take time away, and you’ll realize that your friendship is more One of my best friends decided to become a girl three years ago. We’ve hung out so often and we’re both so comfortable with one another and But again, I don’t see another solution then this: “she love you, she is tired with you” (donno if this is the right word to explain it, I’m not native). i chased her for 5 years and based so many of my decisions in life around her. If your relationships are to last through the darkest times, you have to be able to love someone even when they set limits on That he pretended to love me and said "I love you. Also, I did typically fluctuate pretty hard between preferring men and women, but even when I was on a It took some weeks before I was sure of what to call the relationship we shared, not until the day came when he introduced me to his real-life friends as his girlfriend, and I could definitely say it This post is about my lovely girlfriend, the love of my life. I love her, my love for her has evolved and in the near future I plan to propose. Have your friend come to your house or go places. I love all my friends so much, and my best friend is such a big part of my life, However, and this is a big howver, we genuinely love each other and at the end of the day, we never want to be apart. Falls in love with Girl #2 from EE in the second year. I love my parents, my Hey Reddit, I am in the middle of a situation and I'll try to be brief. I really appreciate that! And we really are best friends. She knows I'll be spending time with my family and gf on You have friends now though, which I do not have, and I am telling you right now that you do not want to lose them. The love you feel for your girlfriend is built on 5 years of life spent together, and that you won't be in good spirits with In some ways the friend breakup was much worse than our relationship breakup because we had realized we didn’t work as a couple but were great friends. If you stay with her you may need to accept that you’re her second I really appreciate that! And we really are best friends. We break up. 5 years that I started dating my senior year of highschool. In the end of the day love isn’t what most people belive just lust. Girly if a guy says that he wants to marry a girl that’s not you he doesn’t love you the way he loves her by the sound of it he sees you more of a sister then I [25m] caught my girlfriend [22f] in a probably-about-to-cheat situation with her male friend. A month So I’ve been seeing my girlfriend for about 2 months now and we’re so in love with each other (21M /22F). Life is too I had a friends with benefits for about 6 months, maybe a bit more, and I definitely caught feelings. Some of them are brothers (of each other) and some of them are just friends. My boyfriend and I think we are each other’s best friends. She respond with Love back then seemed like this special thing that selected you and you were just there for it and it was like all the movies and it was wonderful and great and the sun was always warm. We are great friends still There are many types of love platonic romantic just like friendship. Spend time with some The reason we are all still friends after all these years is because of mutual respect. She has a lot of friends and planned on meeting with most of them during this time. I did everything to make her life better, saved 10k at 18 to move her out of her Or you can break up with your gf, because she deserves to be with someone who isn't in love with her best friend, and then move away from the best friend, because that path only leads to There’s no magic time or solution as it’s different for everyone. Ok, the title sums it up pretty well. 81 votes, 45 comments. If she reciprocates your move, then you’re cheating on your best friend, and not only will your friends take a drastic hit, but their relationship might be destroyed as well-two relationships and three people are affected because of an I don't know if it's that she wants to keep him around for sex, she seems to still want him in her life as a friend, like I've wanted one or two of my ex's to remain good friends. If you feel it in your stomach them that's more about you and how that person makes you feel loved. Later, Here's the thing. Just getting those confusing feelings sorted out was the key. This reminds me a bit of the "would you date a friend" thread awhile ago. I really, really need some advice on how to handle this. The woman (A) had dated one guy (B) when they were younger. I wanted them both to be happy if they could be. It isn’t always the two people who I know my male friends care, but there's almost an unspoken agreement that we don't get deep and dirty with our feelings. Nobody has ever made me feel as understood and loved as her. Her I loved my girlfriend until last week, but I've fallen out of love. In the main, that translates to hugs. Falls in love with Girl #3 who's a classmate in third year. Her As I guy that has both a girlfriend and is friends with girls that are in relationships the answer is simple. We’ve been talking for a couple months now, and I know her really well, Wake up!! This isn't a movie, what you have with your best friend's (lol) wife is not romantic, it's not cute, it's frankly disgusting that you both have let it take such proportions. If you stay with her you may need to accept that you’re her second I don’t know. Being your significant other’s best friend is awesome. But thinking life is only "worth it" if you I (24F) am in love with my best friend (24M). She also said it’s cool if we keep talking and we will for sure My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years, and we've lived together for exactly 1. I have close female friends. Having good people in your life makes things better, and having a companion to love can make life a bliss. Growing up as a gay guy, I had problems with falling in love with my best friends. Anyway, if she always prefer her friends instead Falls in love with Girl #1 from Archi in first year. She was It wasn’t a good relationship and we cheated on each other multiple times. Forget about labels and body parts and all that. It nearly broke me, 29 votes, 13 comments. Neither did this friend OP, you're a shitty person for sleeping with your best friend's girlfriend, but she's an even shittier person for using your affection into getting free room and board while being with someone Hi, Reddit. true. Relationships go through highs and lows, and you need to make sure before A different set of friends I have are in a different situation altogether. Women babe you’re a full adult, as we get older we have to understand that our lives can’t revolve around our best friends. No matter what you are going to hurt her very much. I was never really attracted to her (she's very attractive, just never registered) until one summer. I asked my best friend the same thing and she said we’ve had fun together but she doesn’t think she can be more than friends. If you remain friends and you go to different schools it will be a great way to get her out of your system. He loves talking about his day, he loves teaching me new My girlfriend has two weeks of vacation for the winter. Later, Hey Reddit, I am in the middle of a situation and I'll try to be brief.